Lifestyle Philosophy Spirituality

THE WANT THE CHOICE THE NEW

What is the want? You want thing. It quite gives meaning to your life. You have an idea that this will make your life better. Then the movement of time makes sense. You are moving somewhere. And that somewhere is “better”. How do you conceive of better and worse? You have your memory. Thus the …

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Lifestyle

NEVER justify yourself to ANYONE

 NEVER justify yourself to anyone. Never ever. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t owe anyone anything.   When you are genuine — there is nothing more that you have to do. When you are genuine, when you are simple, when you speak your mind, when you don’t look to manipulate people — there …

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Lifestyle Spirituality

No One Really Has It Better

No one really has it better. Not much better anyway. Hardly better at all.   One is a millionaire and other is a bum. One is a success and other is a failure. One is right and other is wrong. One is loved and other is hated.   We are used to thinking in dualities …

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Spirituality

Perpetuation of Negativity

The only way for negative person, that is aggressive, proud, ambitious, to not be repulsive — is when you identify with “them”, as a group.   Ambition is always aggressive therefore it is always threatening. But when you yourself harbour that ambition then it’s not threatening to you – or at least that is what …

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Lifestyle

Standards Destroy Creativity And Spontaneity

“You have standards”. What does it mean to have standards? Does it not mean to have limits? Yes, you limit (save) yourself from the possibility of producing substandard work. You also limit yourself from the possibility of producing something brilliant. Do your standards predict genius? Do your standards encapsulate the genius?   Standards destroy creativity. …

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Lifestyle

The Truth About Plans and TO-DO Lists

The truth about TO-DO lists is that you can’t complete them.   Why can you not complete those lists? Does this fact render them entirely useless? Let’s enquire.   On the basic level – you make a TO-DO list in order to… KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TO DO. Nothing fancy. You make a list of …

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Lifestyle

You Couldn’t Have Done More

“I could have done more” Could you really? If it truly is so, then please answer me one question: WHY DIDN’T YOU?   Oh yes. You just didn’t. You say: “I could have done more but I DIDN’T.” You say you will have done more the next time. Now there is the past, the present …

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Excuses Only Indicate Confusion

You have many excuses not to do something. But you want to do this thing. Or you “have to” do this thing. You use excuses to escape the doing of the thing, the doing of something. You find temporary comfort in the lie of your excuse. Until you realise your excuse was… well – just …

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