True congruence doesn’t look congruent from the outside — as it involves numerous incongruent-looking decisions.

One who is truly devoted to reality — and so congruent in this devotion — will be changing his mind ALL THE TIME.

To change one’s mind often is not the common perception of congruence. And since we are more concerned with appearances then with reality — our desire to look congruent is how we are stubborn, unintelligent — and ultimately betray our ideals.

Don’t seek virtue. Seek reality.

Don’t seek stability. Seek clarity.