Behind what you don’t want there’s a truth concealed as to why you fail to get what you DO want.
The aggregate reluctance, aggregate failure to get-what-you-want comprises of conscious and subconscious WANTS but also conscious and subconscious DON’T-WANTS.
Counting in the *wants* and counting out the *don’t wants* results in net willingness or unwillingness.
If the net willingness is positive — you will do it if you can.
If the net willingness is negative (unwillingness) — you will NOT do it, you will outright avoid it.
What-you-get-in-life is extremely simple once you consider the subconscious — and utterly inexplicable if you disregard it.
Know yourself.