When you make people you associate with look bad, you make yourself look bad
Don’t make people you associate with look bad
Don’t associate with people who make you look bad
See it works both ways
If you associated with champions — you wouldn’t have this problem of making them look bad; They wouldn’t ever look bad
Then again we make do with what we got
Therefore you exercise good judgement
You discover something you don’t like
You fully accept it
You utter no bad word
Or
You get rid of that problem
E.g. you find fault in someone
You make it work anyway, utter no bad word
Or
You get rid of that person, you won’t associate with standards below you
Not because you’re a snob — but because you understand that you must demand from others as much as you demand from yourself
Not merely to make it “fair” — but simply to make it work
Otherwise you compromise
Compromise on what you two could achieve, and compromise what you already bring to the table
And that would be counterproductive
Why compromise if you don’t have to? Your goal is to move up — not move down. It’s so obvious
Therefore you choose to associate with champions
So one more time, looking at this phenomenon of MAKING OTHERS LOOK BAD, only, now you take full responsibility for it
You understand that if you make others look bad — you make you look bad
You make you look bad — by revealing you don’t associate with champions
(and by revealing that you denigrate your partners behind their backs — one sure way to never get more quality partners again)
Therefore associate with champions
Or make do with what you got, fully taking responsibility