You Whine And You Don’t Even Realise It

(I touched on the subject previously:

Complaining vs Changing vs Accepting

But it merits further exploration)

-There’s acceptance

-There’s determination

-And there’s whining

Whatever you say,

whatever you think,

whatever you do,

whatever you feel,

is a manifestation of one of those 3

Acceptance is calm

Acceptance is understanding

Acceptance is contented

Things are what they are

The bad is bad, the good is good

You are interested in the good

Therefore you give yourself good, and give good to the world

Everything else exists too and you accept it as what it is

You don’t think about it, you don’t talk about it, you don’t feel bad about it

You’re thinking about the good, talking about the good, and feeling the good

Determination is resolute

Determination is firm

Determination is empowered

Things are what they are — but perhaps let’s try to make things better

Let’s TINKER a little with the status quo

Let’s see what’s possible

The bad is bad, the good is good,

You’re still interested in the good

But you look for the good in improving the less-good,

You view it as an opportunity

You look at the less-good and find ways to improve it

Make plans to improve it

Execute plans to improve it

Tinker with it and still improve it more

Learn from it and improve it

“Positive” (“being positive”) is just will to improve

Anything but ACCEPTANCE and DETERMINATION is WHINING

Anything but acceptance and determination is being a WHINING LITTLE BITCH

–Criticism without ANY added value, any direction of improvement = whining

–Scepticism which doesn’t result in improved methods but only results in doing nothing = whining

-Innocent critical remark which is NOT BACKED by actual resolve to do better, to personally make a change, make things a little better = WHINING

-Any fucking expression of disconsolate moods, because the world is of course so horrible and it’s everyone’s fault but yours = WHINING

We normalised whining, of course

We’ve too much time to whine

We created institutions with the sole purpose of whining

We elevate in our society those who are best at whining (best at talking, which is 90% whining)

The true winners are those that don’t whine

You don’t see them! Because those who whine the loudest are those that get your attention

True winners are busy LOVING LIFE

Whining is NOT an act of loving life, obviously

True winners are too busy loving life or IMPROVING SOMETHING TODAY— to find time for whining

Please be honest with yourself,

Please vigilantly observe yourself,

And notice if you’re DOING SOMETHING CONSTRUCTIVE,

If you’re putting constructive, beautiful thoughts in your mind, your heart,

or if you’re WHINING

I mean it

You don’t even realise when you’re whining

In your mind you’re actually improving the world!

You’re whining

If you were actually improving anything of true substance (e.g. your life) — then you would quickly run out of things to whine about!

Please be honest with yourself

Cure this disease

Focus on love and improvement

It’s really fucking simple

Focus on love and improvement

Please be simple