FORGIVING is a form of NOT GIVING A FUCK

 

It means you refuse to give a FUCK about seeing your pique soothed,

your pride indulged,

your honour asserted

 

Should you even give a fuck?

See, that’s the decision to be made

The problem with giving a fuck, or NOT giving a fuck — is that we do either of those two reflexively

Rather than asking ourselves what we want,

what we value

 

And forgiving is such form of not giving a fuck

Perhaps it’s a way in which you debase yourself, your self-esteem, your dignity, your ambition

Or perhaps it’s a way in which you actually choose what is important to you

Where you attention goes

And choose NOT what others think of you, what others owe you

But how they can BENEFIT you