Which hand do you brush your teeth with?
Try switching to the other hand
It’s not so comfortable, is it
Now, imagine that the other hand is actually your stronger hand,
It ought to perform this task better,
But you’re not going to believe it, are you? You trained your other hand to brush your teeth
Do you unlearn now?
If there’s something to gain — you should
Will you?
You may be reluctant
Because the habits are strong
You may forget that you were to use your other hand to brush your teeth in less than a week
Unlearning is a very different skill to learning
Learning only goes one way — you absorb
Unlearning means erasing the previous program — and replacing it with a new one
Problem is — that which you’ve already learned — is now a HABIT
With learning — you merely interact, immerse yourself in the thing, with more or less strategy — and it is learned
With unlearning — you have the added difficulty of keeping yourself from falling back to old HABITS and REFLEXES
There’s also the extra drawback of DESTRUCTION, that comes from unlearning
We don’t want to unlearn
Our knowledge, our memories, is our wealth
We like to look over all the fucking nonsense we accumulated, and feel like we have so much
It’s another form of greediness
And
It’s also our castle, our shelter
It literally makes us feel safer
You don’t have to think, you don’t have to learn, you don’t have to do anything — because you already know everything, you already did everything right
Unlearning obliterates this safety
Thus,
Even idiots can learn
It’s a skill we’re born with
But unlearning?
Not every wise man can unlearn
It’s a skill which must be honed
And of course it is utterly necessary
Perhaps it’s the single most important skill
See we learn UP UNTIL WE HAVE LEARNED, are learn-ed
Even idiots learn
…up until they think they ‘know’,
At which point, by definition, they don’t learn
Because they already know
You tell them something new — they say they disagree
They see their beliefs working poorly in real life — but they say that there’s nothing more to see here, it’s just how the world is, clearly it’s rigged against them
Wise man are as guilty of this affliction as idiots
Wise man have more knowledge to cherish, to fall in love with, to become addicted to, depend on, desperate to uphold,
Idiots the opposite: they know so little, comprehend so little, that this little that they have becomes very precious to them… and the much that they don’t know becomes very SCARY, very ALIEN to them
Wise man looks at what he doesn’t know — and pretends his understanding already includes it, or transcends it
Idiot looks at things they don’t know — and pretend it’s all stupid nonsense, or irrelevant
Of course when you stop learning — your ability to learn becomes irrelevant
You’re now as dumb as a fucking stump
You’re as capable of acquiring new information
Therefore you’re as capable of being intelligent
i.e. utterly incapable
You just repeat like a fucking parrot: “I know I know…”,
It can happen to anyone
All because unlearning is so hard
It is therefore why it’s important to view UNLEARNING as separate from LEARNING,
Or perhaps a subset of learning.. however, unlearning would be then the bulk of the difficulty of learning.
We of course have words and cognate concepts for it:
-critical thinking
-falsification
-thesis and antithesis
-epistemic humility
-accountability, skin in the game
-building habits -> rebuilding habits
-etc
But single word “UNLEARNING” perhaps captures it better,
As it directly focuses attention on the necessary RECYCLING of old habits and beliefs,
Not merely ‘updating’, not merely fake humbleness, not merely ‘trying something new’, not merely ‘exploring’,
again, all that is easy and natural,
but fucking DESTROYING old beliefs,
because they are now an impediment,
They are now AT ODDS with the new model of reality
You can’t use two models at once
2 + 2 can’t simultaneously be equal to 4, and 5
Again,
Destroying old knowledge is hard
Unlearning is hard
It must be viewed as a different problem altogether, and tackled strategically
If you’re failing to move forward, failing to progress, failing to understand..
the first advice is to LEARN more, and EXPERIMENT more
obvious, easy, but not everyone does it
but the second advice is,
UNLEARN
and that is hard
but necessary
Perhaps some cherished beliefs of yours are just NOT going to work, with what you want to achieve, or understanding you want to acquire
UNLEARN