First you give love to yourself

Then give love to others

 

THIS is the formula

Formula to what?

To every time you feel anything less than love

 

Anything less than love is not exactly ideal, is it

Anger is not fun

Resentment is not fun

Greed is not fun

Need is not fun

etc…

Obviously you’d rather experience love

You only experience those feelings BECAUSE you don’t YET love yourself

You only experience those feelings BECAUSE you don’t YET love the gift of life

If you experienced love — obviously you wouldn’t choose those lesser emotions, lesser states

 

Now obviously when you experience those states — you don’t exactly think of love

You don’t even remember love

You only remember your madness, your determination, your pride, your stubbornness, your little fucking problems

Greed breeds more greed, dissatisfaction breeds more dissatisfaction, resentment breeds more resentment, and so on,

 

Therefore this is the formula:

First you give love to yourself

Then give love to others

You literally override whatever emotion, whatever attitude is subjugating you today

 

How does it work?

The point is that the only thing that you should bother with is LOVE

It’s the highest emotion to experience

It’s the highest paradigm from which to build

It’s the highest state

You love yourself, and you love the gift of life, and you love the world, and you love others

You do it in that order — because you’re only so capable of love

You’re lucky if you’ve enough love to even love yourself,

To even take good care of your own self

Once you’re busy LOVE — there’s really no time to bother with anything else. And obviously no point.

That’s how it works, basically

 

It’s not ambiguous

DO THE BEST YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF, as though you LOVED yourself

THAT’S what it means

When you’re busy taking BEST CARE OF YOURSELF, LOVING YOURSELF — you don’t fucking have time for nonsense of resentment, nonsense of anger, nonsense of negativity

All that fucking bullshit is a distraction

Start by loving yourself — and the world’s nonsense becomes a distraction

 

…THEN you move on to the second part of the formula — giving love to others

Why would you give love to others?

Could be selfishly and pragmatically — to acquire even more love in return

(e.g. investing in others, but obviously earning interest)

Or could be simply because it’s the only way to grow YET beyond yourself. By connecting to the whole. By LOVING something greater than yourself, CARING for something greater than yourself, ELEVATING something greater than yourself

 

Therefore this is the formula

Love yourself so much that you’re too fucking busy for nonsense

Once you loved yourself well enough — love others as much as you can

This simple formula will solve a lot of problems

It’s simple, but we fail to understand it, fail to use it. We waste life on unending nonsense torn by negativity, slights, struggles, expectations, conflicting desires, blablabla

There’s no time for it

Love yourself more, give yourself more love, first, before all else, there’s no time for nothing else

When you’ve too much, give to others