Lifestyle

Trick Yourself Into Respecting Others

You should trick yourself into respecting others, more than they deserve   Indeed, most don’t deserve much respect, Almost innately — for by the virtue of individuality — most can’t possibly share your values You not liking them, not listening to them, not giving them the least of your attention, ultimately thus not giving them …

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Lifestyle

Fear As A System To Navigate

Everyone knows SOME form of PAIN and SUFFERING from birth, the first less-than-comfortable moment   But EVEN WITHOUT IT — one has INSTALLED FEAR OF UNKNOWN, as well as prior FEAR templates (e.g. spiders) =basic self-preservation instinct   Ergo one HAS FEAR, from very early point That fear is, preferably — OFFSET by growing RESILIENCE …

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Lifestyle Philosophy Spirituality

Bliss Through Chaos

You don’t pursue happiness, You don’t pursue WELLNESS You don’t pursue calmness, serenity You don’t pursue bliss   There are only two components to any spiritual state: -inner -outer   No, it’s not just “inner”. It’s not just you “choosing” your state And obviously it’s not just outer — that’s why so many people with …

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Lifestyle Philosophy

What is Urgency, Actually?

What is urgency, actually?   Is it desire? Desire to have something as soon as possible?   Is it effort? Incurring dramatic effort, in order to get it done faster?   Is it prioritisation? Pulling all resources into that single undertaking first?   Is it stress? A necessary, painful token validating one’s seriousness? A chicken …

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Lifestyle Philosophy

Why NOT Measuring Everything Is Stupid

I wrote once: MEASURE EVERYTHING   It strikes me as even more obvious now: How COULD YOU NOT measure everything?! It’s not “why”, it’s “HOW CAN YOU NOT”?   When you go to the shop, do you just eyeball how much you should pay? Do you look at the CART, and GUESS how VALUABLE all …

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Lifestyle Philosophy

UNLEARNING

Which hand do you brush your teeth with? Try switching to the other hand It’s not so comfortable, is it Now, imagine that the other hand is actually your stronger hand, It ought to perform this task better, But you’re not going to believe it, are you? You trained your other hand to brush your …

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