There are only opportunities You find the best opportunity and then go in that direction How far you went doesn’t matter — if a better opportunity emerges You just change direction Why is “perseverance” an ideal, then? Perseverance is an ideal because of OPACITY involved, UNCERTAINTY involved You actually DON’T KNOW what …
Category: Lifestyle
Giving is Selfish, Altruistic and RATIONAL
Giving is obviously beneficial to the receiver — AND the giver Giving is obviously beneficial to the giver, selfishly It takes advantage of the reciprocity bias — often you’ll get more in return than you put in In giving you acquire trust You reveal peaceful, helpful intent And in continuing giving you maintain …
How To Traumatise, How To Not Traumatise
TRUE TRAUMA is when you are completely convinced of being INNATELY, DEEPLY, IDENTITY-LEVEL … DAMAGED Conversely if you’re NOT convinced — then you don’t care The likelihood of you being CONVINCED is proportional to your EXPERIENCE (confidence) in the subject -e.g. if you otherwise know NOTHING BUT SUCCESS — some idiot won’t immediately convince …
Admit You Don’t Like Them, NEUTRALLY
Why don’t you just admit that you don’t like someone Without having to first get angry or offended or conceited or quarrel with them Why don’t you just ADMIT that you have a PREFERENCE Without denigrating someone Without puffing up like a fucking peacock Without even a tincture of hostility Just an EXTREMELY CASUAL …
“PROGRESSIVE” Means Resulting In PROGRESS
Progressive means RESULTING IN PROGRESS If it’s not resulting in PROGRESS — then it’s not really progressive, is it? Intention of progress is not progress Just like your intention to be famous and loved and big and strong doesn’t really make you famous and loved and big and strong and what-not In real …
SPONTANEOUS Communication vs BUSINESS Communication
PERSONAL is spontaneous and fathomless . BUSINESS is specific and focused. (BUSINESS, or “GOAL ORIENTATION”) I believe the key PRINCIPLES to follow in one’s PERSONAL EXPRESSION, PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS: –INDIVIDUALITY and (personal) CONGRUENCE -SPONTANEITY and EXPLORATION –MINIMALISM and RESERVATION and MYSTERIOUSNESS I believe in BUSINESS it’s mostly the opposite: -NOT about you but about …
Everyone Should Get “Rich”
Do you need food? Do you need shelter? Do you have shelter? Do you have all the food? Do you have enough to live indefinitely? If you don’t then how do you know you will have it tomorrow? What if you won’t? What if you starve? What if you freeze? This is …
If You Can’t Own Who You Are Then How Could You Get What You Want?
If you can’t own who you are, then how could you own what you like? and then how could you GET what you WANT, get what you LIKE? Where do you draw the line? Where does self-consciousness start? Does it start with your vulnerabilities? Where do you begin to feel ashamed? What would you …
RICHER means NOT number – but VALUE
AMOUNT (OF MONEY, resource) is just one of the myriad variables But it’s PRODUCTS and SERVICES which just FLUCTUATE like CRAZY in PRICES and subsequent VALUE As well as one’s NEEDS Thus the CHANGES IN THE MARKET, in the products and services available, actually impact the bottom line MORE than the number on one’s …
It’s NOT about the POSSIBILITY of IMPROVEMENT — it’s about the AGGREGATE WILL TO CHANGE
OPPORTUNITIES TO IMPROVE ARE EVERYWHERE (IMPROVEMENT is INTRINSIC to REALITY) =EVERY SINGLE THING IN YOUR LIFE has INNATELY the PROPERTY of being SUSCEPTIBLE TO IMPROVEMENT, by definition -every single thing can be changed, -improvement is a form of change Furthermore The EXPRESSION OF THE TRUTH of that POSSIBILITY of IMPROVEMENT is UBIQUITOUS: -when someone …