Lifestyle

Healthy Relationship With Fear

Fear is not completely illusionary. It’s usually 90% illusionary   It’s better to be wrong 9 times out of 10 and live then be right 9 times out of 10 and die Fear is duly overcompensating You should learn from that ancient, evolutionary mechanism It’s the one whose over-prepared and overreacting that survives   With …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle

Make up Twice

Always make up twice for your shortcomings   When you always make up for your shortcomings — you don’t lose respect for yourself. And others may even respect you more. Few can admit to falling short and fewer still are generous enough with their efforts to overcompensate   When you always make up for your …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle Philosophy Spirituality World

Good Deeds

Good deeds don’t make you good Protecting the planet doesn’t make you good Giving to charity doesn’t make you good Not eating animals doesn’t make you good Protecting the oppressed doesn’t make you good   Goodness is not some stupid checklist Goodness is not some game Goodness is not scoring points   Obviously I’d rather …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle Philosophy

Wisdom-Making

You don’t want to pride yourself in your wisdom This will make you foolish   When you incentivize this ideal of being wise, saying wise things and coming up with wise observations — you incentivize artificial fabrication of wisdom and self-delusion. this also entails deluding others   You go through your single life and all …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle

Make It Harder AND Make It Easier

Some always make it hard for themselves Some always make it hard for themselves and sometimes it results in arriving where no one else has been Sometimes it results in nothing but hardship   Some always make it easy for themselves Some of those find a clever way to solve the same problem: quicker, easier …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle Spirituality

Lying on the Beach Gets Bad Rep

lying on the beach gets bad rep lying in the sun is meditation lying in the sun is spirituality   franticly running around seeing places, scoring landmarks, taking photos, as if to some report, now that is ambitious, that is mundane, that is worldly and lowly and rushed and profane and greedy and low energy …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle World

Do Better Job

Virtually everything can be done better or faster or both   If you do it faster you earn faster If you do it better you earn better   We over-complicate this business business Money-making business Just do something useful Then do something more useful Or more of something useful, and quicker   No job is …

Continue Reading
Lifestyle

The Right Way

  Some do what pays the bills or what’s lucrative, even if they hate it Some do whatever they want, or nothing at all Such a false dichotomy! There obviously IS some middle ground   To pay the bills you get a job To do what you’re excited about you do something you’re excited about …

Continue Reading