You think the way you interact with people is “normal”. You think changing your default behaviour is “not being real”, or “unnatural”, perhaps. The way you interact with people is not normal. The way you create relationships is not normal. It is not normal and it is not natural. You are a victim of …
Category: Lifestyle
Directness Is a SUPERPOWER
Directness really IS a superpower. For it really only comes with self-acceptance, self-understanding, self love, self reliability… After a lifetime of self-denial, repression, compliance, obedience, self-sacrifice, trusting others with your happiness and self-worth — directness truly IS a superpower. …for when you finally say what you think — you are that much closer to DOING …
The Tragedy Of Indulgence
Indulgence conceals a terrible secret. It kills pleasure. Indulgence kills pleasure. It kills joy. It kills satisfaction. The very point of indulgence is pleasure, and yet, it kills pleasure obviously it doesn’t grant satisfaction, this much you’ve probably heard, but it basically kills pleasure, it will essentially destroy the joy. Do you know …
“Giving Up On Dreams” Is An Oxymoron
“Giving up on dreams” is an oxymoron. It makes no sense. If you love doing something — why would you give it up? Your life would have to force you to give it up, yes? How does life force you to NOT do something? If you must support yourself, then do. It doesn’t …
The More Relaxed You Are The More Creative AND More Effective
Stress is not concentration. Relaxation is not slacking. Stress, biologically, is an organism’s response to a challenge. To put it simply — it quite simply makes you more suited for the challenge. It makes you smarter, faster and stronger. A lovely thing. Only — what is a challenge? Is life a challenge? I like …
The Way Out Of Chaos Is NOT Through Order
What does your life comprises of? Things, yes? No not really. Just our “concept” of life. “The narrative”. But for must of us, the experience is hardly ever separated from the narrative. And from the self, in the centre of it all… What does your life comprises of? Where do the things come …
Things WILL Fall Into Their Place
Obviously things will fall into their place if you let them. How could they not? It’s just that you want them in a different place. Do design your life, if you please. As long as this desire doesn’t make you suffer. Otherwise, let the chips fall where they may. They will.
The Change, The Reality And The Death
What you call “reality” is modeled on the feedback that you’re receiving. The feedback that you’re receiving is based on actions which you’re taking. It is based on your activities. (If you eat rice and broccoli every day – you are going to think that all food tastes like rice and broccoli. And you will …
You May Not Change For The Better But You CAN Always Change
“Changing for better”, the ultimate delusion. what is better? how do you know it’s better? perhaps it will be your undoing. Perhaps you will be murdered for that money. Perhaps the responsibility of that position will kill you. Perhaps you won’t be able to live without that person. Perhaps you won’t know what to …
Reciprocity Is Fear
Reciprocity is based on scarcity. And dependence. And clinging. Scarcity is ultimately always based on clinging. When you don’t cling — there is nothing to feel lacking about. Reciprocity is based on your lacking mentality. You are afraid that the giver will take away his gifts. You simply cling to the offerings. …