The process of worrying is created by your mind, which trades your sanity for the illusion of control (and a minute trace of comfort). Worrying doesn’t ever solve the problem, but it makes you feel useful. Quite like work does, despite you being unproductive and uncreative. If you truly direct your attention to the …
Category: Lifestyle
The Slavemaster
We come into this world and are immediately inundated by the great weight of commitments, obligations, responsibilities, goals, ambitions… We go to school so that it kills our creativity and then we go to college so that we can slave for others. We get paid a lot or a little but we do submit. The …
Glimmer Of Meaning Is Far More Compelling Then Either Greed Or Need Is
We are nothing but hopeless drunks. Our drug – the MEANING. We do everything for the MEANING. Any meaning. We just want something, anything, to believe in. We do everything for any meaning. We might be fooled to believe that our motivations really are prosaic – that we are just a GREEDY bunch, …
“Hard Work” Is When The Passion Is NOT
Most of us know nothing of the passion. We talk all day about it and it is exactly what it is — just TALK. We never live our passion, we never live passionately. When there is ACTION then there’s nothing to talk about, nothing to think about – just ACTION. We never live our passion …
Interpersonal Relations Heuristics
Interpersonal Relations Heuristics: 1) Be positive 2) Be genuine 3) Give value then 4) Treat everyone the same but keep ONLY the FEW of your CHOOSING Be positive — unless you are positive you are negative. When you are negative you make others negative. It doesn’t matter who you are and what you …
It Is Never The Point To Repress Anger
Anger is stupid. First we blame the outside world. Then we blame ourselves. First we blame the outside world, then we blame ourselves. We never enquire into the meaning of it. We are angry and we get aggressive to the world and then we are feeling bad and we call it madness and denounce it …
You Can’t Seek Freedom Ambitiously
Why all this ambition? You want to be something. And you want something for yourself. Hence you go on achieving and struggling and grappling. Surely, all this effort, all this commitment, all those obligations, surely this all is very restricting, very confining. You can’t realise all your many fixed goals without adhering to them, …
Should And Could
Whatever you should do — enslaves you. Whatever you could do — liberates you. It sounds almost too cliche yet living this simple mantra is entirely different then understanding it. Once we were simply alive and there was no context to the living itself — just pure living. Once, there was no “should” …
You Either Lost It, Seek It, Or Have It
Contentment. Happiness. Satisfaction. Completeness. What is it and why do you not have it? We are struggling, we are dissatisfied, we are in conflict. Where is contentment? Where is completeness? Where is PEACE? You either lost is, seek it, or have it. There really are only 3 types of people, those …
Pain Is A Result Of Conflict
Pain is a result of conflict. You are conflicted on the inside — hence you are in pain. The conflict is between what-ought-to-be and what-is. What-is is that you want something, but you pretend you don’t want it. What-is is that you are something, but you want to be something else. Weather you attempt …