being “based”, saying what you think, and NOT being afraid of offending others = super cool
offending others is uncool, lame, insecure
it’s just like BEING COOL, vs TRYING TO LOOK COOL,
you know?
trying to “say a funny thing”, or “look strong”, or hint at your HIGH VALUE — that’s uncool as fuck, try-hard and insecure,
what’s cool is to JUST BE THERE, representing who you are
everyone is handwaving and acting and trying to one-up another
or panicking and doing 10 things at once because everything is so important and they so lack control
but you’re cool, you have it all under control
and you’re cool, cool with who you are
likewise criticising is uncool, most the time
your insights should be the criticism
your ideas of improvement should be the criticism
preferably your actual improved actions should be the criticism
THAT’S the best criticism
to start from criticism is actually to start from the place of insecurity putting others down
it’s pathetic
if you have CRITICISM of something — go ahead and PROVE you have improvements
otherwise shut the fuck up
the same with scepticism
what are you achieving with your “scepticism”?
if the naive one is right one out of 100 times — at least he achieves something
you achieve nothing, you’re just justifying your own insignificance
being negative is of course uncool
your precious time dwindles minute by minute
you just spent a fucking minute of your life with a discontented look on your face, whinging
that’s a loser to me
winners win, winners smile and have a blast
can you see?
being COOL is very important, is it not
as long as you’re ACTUALLY cool
if you think you’re cool, TRY to be cool — you’re actually uncool
relax
focus on doing something amazing
amazing work, and amazing fun
1000% own who you are
0% care what others think
unless you can learn from them of course, then just listen, very intently, with child-like curiosity and amusement and playfulness even. it’s learning time, which is FUN
don’t talk about others because it’s what losers do
unless it pertains to your own work — in which case you consider it in a cool, utterly ABSTRACTED manner