Lifestyle Philosophy Spirituality

Go Harder Yet Go Softer (Blazing Fire, Calm Water)

Go harder

Go softer

 

What does it mean to go hard?

We put many labels on it,

going hard

being hard

hard work

“be very motivated

why don’t you dispense with all those labels

…and just try…

FOCUSING ON A SINGLE THING FOR A SINGLE FUCKING HOUR

 

Get a timer — set it for an hour

Get your mind straight

Time is a limited resource

And right now this is the only hour you’ll ever have

INDEED there will never be an hour like that — no two hours are identical…

Make it count

MAKE IT COUNT

See WHAT YOU CAN ACHIEVE within that hour

 

See we have all kinds of convoluted tricks and tactics to “Be productive”:

“How to not procrastinate

“How to organize better”

“How to be more motivated”

Why don’t you just ACTUALLY WORK — when you DO WORK?

Why don’t you take the SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING — out of all the important things that there are in your life — and why don’t you go ALL OUT, with ABSOLUTE AND UTTER FOCUS — on that SINGLE THING??

 

Get a timer

DELETE all your distractions. NOT A SINGLE DISTRACTION is allowed. It instantly ruins it

Get a timer — and EVERY SINGLE MINUTE OF IT — you go ALL OUT

THEN you can relax

 

Never say “I don’t have time” if you’re not doing those 2 things:

PRIORITISING, focusing on the SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING

—PUTTING IN THAT SINGLE FUCKING HOUR of ABSOLUTE IMMACULATE FOCUS

go hard like your life depended on it

 

…you WOULDN’T BELIEVE how much an hour of ACTUAL, FOCUSED, HIGH-ROI work is worth,

compare an hour of Elon Musk’s work with an hour of some bureaucrat, banging out pointless hours in the fucking office

all you productivity tricks are drivel if you can’t even sit for an hour and GIVE IT ALL YOU’VE GOT

 

now,

isn’t that too hard?

isn’t that too stressful?

what’s the point in doing something if you don’t love it and enjoy it?

those are valid points

 

THE POINT IS to be SINGLE-MINDED

The point is to ACTUALLY WORK when you’re working,

The point is to actually DO what you said you would

THAT is unavoidable, indisputable

Either you’re DOING something — or you’re NOT doing something (e.g. doing something else)

It’s fine if it’s PLAY TIME

But don’t say you’re “working”

You’re PLAYING, with some work in between

Or you’re doing 10 things at once or whatever — but you’re NOT DOING THE THING

When you say you’re doing something — MEAN IT. Give it 100%.

Just give it 1 hour of absolute focus and dedication and blood, sweat and tears.

 

Now,

Can’t you go relaxedly, effortlessly, slowly, NATURALLY, spontaneously, harmoniously, INSPIREDLY ?

Do you have to rush against the clock — and then still lose, still fail to deliver, still DIE — without having finished…?

Does the rushing and achieving ever end?

 

It’s a valid conflict, isn’t it?

Obsession with the outcome and performance — at the cost of naturalness, peacefulness

vs

Spontaneity, sincerity, unforced creativity — at the cost of accountability, motivation, ambition

 

EXCEPT IT’S NOT

You can go HARDER — AND GO SOFTER

 

The point is to be SINGLE MINDED

Which is to WORK WHEN YOU WORK

And to DO THE THING — when you WANT TO DO THE THING

Do you understand?

In the wake of your divine inspiration or animalistic impulse or capitalistic greed or whatever it is — you RECOGNIZE THAT WHICH MUST BE DONE — and FOCUS ON IT 1000%.

That is all there is to it

 

Can you go softer then?

Can you VALUE EVERY MINUTE — yet go softer?

Can you not stress, not tense, not desire, not rush?

Can you rush SLOWLY?

Can you be the BLAZING FIRE — yet CALM AS WATER?

 

….

One can go very soft

There’s the stillness of water,

The harmony of the forest

The languor of a sunny, cloudless day

The vastness of the mountains

The contentment of a sleeping cat

The warmth before the fireplace

The quiet of the night

The comfort of one’s bed

The bliss of a peaceful and simple life

The absence of troubles and worries and appointments and deadlines and bills and taxes and savings and nonsense?

Can you conceive of that?

 

Now,

Can you nurture that quality?

Can you commit to having more of that quality in your life?

Can you appreciate that quality?

 

There must be appreciation, there must be recognition

You must realize that you are NOT being peaceful

That there is perhaps a more natural state — which you had lost, somehow

That perhaps reality played you a fool

That you’re going to die anyway…. except perhaps not right now,

So relax now

Relax

Commit to peace, relax

 

…and once you did — is it time to ruin it now, with all the RUSHING?

it it time to ruin it with a TO DO LIST , and a fucking TIMER?

no

 

I want you to know peace

and cultivate it in every area of your life

and everything you do shall be carried out with a sense of calmness

with a sense of control

with a sense of non-attachment

with the wisdom of KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT,

and calmly doing it

as though you’re walking through fields and meadows and forests, on a peaceful sunny day

 

EXCEPT

EXCEPT I want you to SIMULTANEOUSLY have the PROFOUND fucking RESPECT for EVERY SINGLE THING THAT YOU’RE DOING !!!

WHICH IS TO BE SINGLE-MINDED, when you’re doing something

Which is to WORK WHEN YOU WORK

And to DO THE THING — when you WANT TO DO THE THING

 

AND to do it with a FIRE in your belly,

And yet as calmly as a mountain stream

 

No I don’t believe this is conflicted

Every single moment of your life you could be more peaceful

More at peace

More caring

More slow

More relaxed,

More loving

And yet

every single thing you, you could be

more enthusiastic

more exhilarated

more committed

more focused

more accountable

more ingenious

more brilliant

more energetic

more loving