If you don’t know what’s possible in the real world — how can you know what’s possible in the realm of your psyche?
You can’t even conceive the limits of the real world. Yet you believe all your made-up ideas about yourself: what you need, what you want, what you are.
You decide you are “XYZ” and stick with it for life, like it’s a sentence.
The hardest part about changing is just changing.