Honesty can appear as meanness but meanness can never pass up as honesty – as some would like to believe.
Is it integrity, valiant shielding of the truth — or is he just a mean person? Insecure person? Ambitious person? Angry person?
If truth can’t defend itself then who are you to defend it?
I fail to see an angry person as not an angry person.
i fail to see an aggressive person as a courageous person.
I fail to see a loud, ambitious, insecure person as a strong person.
Talk ideas.
Argue ideas, perhaps.
Talk inspirations.
Don’t talk people.
Don’t argue people.
Don’t judge people.