Unrealistic expectations are not innocent and benign Unrealistic expectations are evil Unrealistic expectations are not innocent and benign They cause you to engage in unpromising, suboptimal, unrealistic pursuits Therefore they cause you to fail Unrealistic expectations are not innocent and benign It’s only fun to dream your amazing future It’s no fun learning …
Tag: Change
The Only Doing is Doing NEW Things
We think we’re “doing”, or “trying” Really we’re not You don’t understand Doing You watch what others call “doing” and call it “doing” They say work is “doing” and watching tv is “wasting time” They say effort is “doing” and relaxing is “slacking” They say activity is “doing” and laying around is “not doing” …
Accepting and Resigning
Accepting is but full comprehension of the situation. That involves comprehending what is possible within the situation, what is not possible, and what it not known to be possible. ”Resignation” is failure to comprehend the situation. It denotes failure to comprehend the possibilities within the situation, the actions which can be taken. It also …
WHAT CHANGES?
WHAT CHANGES? does the world change? does your life change? does the reality change? does the human nature change? does the god change? what changes and what doesn’t? everything changes, but the whole everything changes in time, but the whole the whole is changeless everything else changes everything else changes but this is …
YOU WANT TO THINK MORE AND DO MORE
-there’s the thinking vs doing dichotomy -first one only does — breaths, walks, eats, lives… -then one hopefully learns to think; Not everyone does, mind you -then, some of us become infatuated, with this THINKING-GAME -thinking can then become an end in and of itself -one then hopefully returns to doing -this doing must …
There’s No “Being Vs Doing”
There’s this paradigm of “being vs doing”, in which, you become the person you want to be — rather then continuously pressure yourself to perform a certain way, continuously proving yourself, continuously exerting yourself There’s a place for this paradigm For instance: -you can establish good habits once — and benefit from them your entire …
You’re Not “Ok” And It’s Ok
You’re not “ok” and it’s ok You’re not “ok” Chances are there’s something NOT “ok” about you And if there’s not — then there will be You will soon enough not be so “ok”, as you’re rotting in the ground Chances are you’ll be rotting even before you’re rotting Your health will rot …
Everything But The Truth About Oneself
poor fools they’ll hang on to everything but the truth truth about themselves appearances words gestures emotions achievements “proofs” theories validation reasons and excuses EVERYTHING but the truth is it even possible to change? is it even possible to change oneself? how desperately we don’t want to change EVERYTHING is against us …
THE CONSEQUENCES
Every single moment of your life you do something (even when you do nothing — you do nothing) Everything you do has consequences Everything you do has two type of consequences: —Present consequences —Long-term consequences The consequences can be positive or negative or neutral Most of us spend lives trying to …
Don’t Shout — Teach
Everyone has an opinion Everyone wants to shout Nobody wants to change Nobody is willing to teach It’s easy to mete out justice on social media Take selfies on a fancy demonstration Write stupid articles about what ought to be It’s a cheap meaning Cheap moral high ground Cheap truth Cheap sense …