Its not just that healing the symptoms is not healing the causes — but that healing symptoms precludes healing causes, by making the problem invisible Healing the symptoms doesn’t just fail to address the problem — it actually makes it worse Therefore you should altogether avoid addressing symptoms or numbing yourself or distracting Because then …
Tag: Change
The Point Of The Unexpected Is Unexpected
The point of the unexpected is that it IS unexpected. Which means that it can be as much an unexpected success as it can be a disappointment. If it couldn’t have been either then it wouldn’t have been unexpected. If you expect it to always be good then what kind of *unexpected* …
Beyond Entitlement
We collectively have an idea of What-One-Deserves, formed a posteriori. It’s an *OBSERVATION* It is thus not supposed to have predictive power. EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU DESERVE, OR DON’T DESERVE, IS A LIE. Do you deserve the sun? Do you deserve a lambo? Do you deserve a horse? Do you deserve to …
The Hardest Part About Changing
If you don’t know what’s possible in the real world — how can you know what’s possible in the realm of your psyche? You can’t even conceive the limits of the real world. Yet you believe all your made-up ideas about yourself: what you need, what you want, what you are. You decide you …
you didn’t earn it you took it
You didn’t earn it. You took it. Stop implying a sacrifice. It’s a choice. To even imply a sacrifice is to make life harder. Why does there have to be this dichotomy? you earning it / you not earning it you deserving it / you not deserving it you making it / you …
Changing Is So Easy
Changing is so easy only when there is not all this resistance making it so hard One can’t just change his life he must tell everybody about it create all the stupid drama stuff the whole thing with all this self-importance The more you want to change the less you change …
The Wrongs Are Wrongs
The wrongs are wrongs. It won’t cease being wrong just because you ignore it. It will anger you for as long as you not solve it. Your wrongs you correct with action and/or understanding. Wrongs of others you correct by: 1) Correcting them 2) Getting rid of them 3) Making the …
The Way Out Of Chaos Is NOT Through Order
What does your life comprises of? Things, yes? No not really. Just our “concept” of life. “The narrative”. But for must of us, the experience is hardly ever separated from the narrative. And from the self, in the centre of it all… What does your life comprises of? Where do the things come …
The Change, The Reality And The Death
What you call “reality” is modeled on the feedback that you’re receiving. The feedback that you’re receiving is based on actions which you’re taking. It is based on your activities. (If you eat rice and broccoli every day – you are going to think that all food tastes like rice and broccoli. And you will …
You May Not Change For The Better But You CAN Always Change
“Changing for better”, the ultimate delusion. what is better? how do you know it’s better? perhaps it will be your undoing. Perhaps you will be murdered for that money. Perhaps the responsibility of that position will kill you. Perhaps you won’t be able to live without that person. Perhaps you won’t know what to …