You’re not as pretty as you think and not as ugly as you think You deny both your value and your ugliness in how you imagine yourself We are so ugly because we deny our ugliness We deny our innate egoism and build a world of lies, rather then mutual interest We deny …
Tag: Psychology
Satisfy Satisfaction
You’ve seen the trap you had fallen into The futility of outside achievement You saw the impermanence of things and now you know that there is no way of completing yourself there is nothing to complete no you only impermanence You want to be free from this desire to complete yourself, this desire to …
ACCORD
Every interpersonal conflict is but the discrepancy between what is expected and what is communicated. Many are not even themselves aware of their expectations — thus bound for conflict. With others, with themselves… Accord stands on the pillars of clear communication and clarity of vision. Clarity of vision is ultimately a matter …
Something Is Better Then Nothing
“Something is better than nothing” is one maxim to actually change lives Your pompous new year’s resolutions are great way to boast drunkenly in the middle of the first night of this glorious forthcoming new year If you actually want changes — start small — and just make sure to stick with it. …
Pop Culture Reflects Us
Pop culture reflects us… and makes us, whether you’re “above it” or not Learn from your reflection of who you are You’re not so different than the POP culture Maybe it reflects the worst of you or maybe worst of you reflects it There’s a link some of us are trying to deny …
Healing The Symptoms
Its not just that healing the symptoms is not healing the causes — but that healing symptoms precludes healing causes, by making the problem invisible Healing the symptoms doesn’t just fail to address the problem — it actually makes it worse Therefore you should altogether avoid addressing symptoms or numbing yourself or distracting Because then …
Discard That Logic
Even if your excuses are perfectly sensible and logical — if you’re not where you want yourself to be — it’s time to discard (that) logic. The smarter you are the smarter are your excuses. If you can’t discard the excuses then discard both SMARTS and excuses — then go ahead and do something. DO …
Organization vs Discipline
People confuse good planning and organization with willpower and discipline. Very few can keep their promise not because of bad intentions but because good and actually accurate planning is extremely difficult No amount of discipline turns a garbage plan into a viable one The confusion results from the fact that most man actually lack both …
Your Disdain
If “lower levels” provoke disgust in you, provoke bitter mockery or criticism — you are likely not much “higher”, and bearing elements of those yourself Your disdain for failure betrays your own insecurity Your derision of the system betrays your own fecklessness in life Your cynicism betrays your inertia Your arrogance betrays doubts about your …
We’re Are Just Not Ready For Social Media
Yes, social media can be used positively or negatively Unfortunately it just happens that at the current level of our societal consciousness it is mostly used negatively. Drugs are an easy and disproportionate way to make oneself happy. Temporarily Social media are the same. Social media don’t necessarily have to be used as a …