What’s the funniest thing about FEELING? You can feel certain way because you are certain way… or you can feel certain way because you feel certain way. Feelings are signals. Feelings help us perceive the world. Mind takes time to process the consequences of certain action, but under the influence of emotions, our decisions …
Tag: Psychology
If Your Accomplishments Don’t Make You Happy, It’s Because You Can’t Touch Them
You thought that becoming something will make you happy. It won’t. NOT—becoming something can make you unhappy… you are terrified of being nothing, hence you create the ideal of being something. You strive to become and to accomplish and to achieve but this is only an escape from being nothing… And perhaps you truly did …
You May Be A “Pessimist” But You’re Still A WISHFUL THINKER
Optimism and pessimism are both two sides of the same coin. Its basically an example of circular reasoning. You assume a certain outcome, or something about certain outcome. You assume something is gonna be ‘good’ or ‘bad’. something is gonna go ‘well’ or ‘unwell’. There is no well and unwell. Its just a label. There …
You Shit What You Eat
You shit what you eat. You get what you think. “You”, as you know it, is just a collection of thoughts. Thoughts are the result of the memory, and memory is the result of memorization, memorization of the observed. Weather you believe in positive thinking and all the rest of it, is immaterial. You …
I’m Not A Student Of History – I Am A Student Of The Self
If religion is opium of the people, so is politics. We have two dogs set at each other, a dull entertainment for the overexcited voters. Studying history is very humbling. It makes you realize the insignificance of one man, one society, one country, one culture. Larger powers rose and came into ashes, long before you, …
If You Know EXACTLY What You Want At ANY Given Moment, And Then You FOLLOW…You Shall Know HAPPINESS.
Few know what they want. Everyone thinks they want something, and everyone is disappointed upon receiving it… now you want something else. Knowing what you want is not knowledge. It’s a state. “What you want” is not a thing. You can’t get it and keep it. “What you want” is never fixed. It’s ever …
Core Confidence Thrives On Self Knowledge
Core confidence, as opposed to situational confidence, does not depend on the external. Yon may feel confident about your professional skills, or you may be confident about your ability to cook a great dinner. You may feel confident around some people who you know like you. You are confident about something because you learned …
You Respect Others Because You Crave Being Respected
The whole lofty ideal of RESPECT is built around the fundamental humanly need of being something. You can’t respect yourself without respecting others first… …or disrespecting! You want to be something – therefore you create the label of respectability. Then, you assign it to some, and to some you don’t. There is NO respect …
You Can Tell The Exact Moment People Refuse To Listen
Some people are great listeners. Some people are great conversationalists. And some people are just great. Most people are bad listeners. Most people are dull conversationalists. Most people are pretty boring too. How not to be boring, when you spend your whole life doing boring things in a boring place with boring people… yeah …
Most People Are Not Exactly Suffering… They’re Simply Dull And Numb
Most people don’t have what they want. Most people are not satisfied with their lives. Predominately, most people are not happy with what they are. The question is – are people suffering? I think many people are suffering. Anything can be the cause of someone’s suffering. We are all so self-important, so pride and …