Philosophy World

Accountability

  The fact that so few are accountable makes one wonder if one even knows the meaning of ACCOUNTABILITY Let me explain   There are two ways of doing something. OPTIMAL and NOT OPTIMAL   The difference between the optimal and not optimal is often ambiguous. Particularly in creative acts. It is also often NOT …

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World

Meet People to Know People

  Meet people to know people. Don’t overthink don’t over-analyse, Meet more people to more understand people.   Meeting people is an experience like every other. One becomes experienced by meeting people. Experience engenders better judgement, better understanding.   Interpersonal understanding is not expanded with thought, analysis, systems, ideas… Interpersonal understanding is expanded with experience. …

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Spirituality

No One Really Gets Away With Anything

    No one really gets away with anything.   The wrongdoer is not coming from a happy place. The wrongdoer is already coming from a place of dissatisfaction, fear and strife. It’s a dark place to be — and it’s only getting darker.   Should you really ever be upset with anybody? Can’t you …

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The Real Cause of Disagreement

The ultimate cause of disagreement is our unreadiness for agreement   We don’t really want peace. We don’t really want consensus. What we want is to be LARGE. Larger then our neighbour, larger then our brother, larger then our lover.   The absurdity of most conflicts doesn’t as much point at our stupidity as it …

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Lifestyle Philosophy Spirituality

We Label Each Other

The only way to threat someone badly is by deliberately hurting them. You can’t be held accountable for not helping someone. Most can’t be helped. “Good treatment”, “rules of conduct”, “good behaviour” — all these are constructs. It’s subjective “good”, agreed “good”, and not objective. We have a habit of labelling things. This habit makes …

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Lifestyle Spirituality

NEVER Be Afraid To Be Disliked

  You DO want to be liked. You said you didn’t but you do. You were said: be kind be friendly be polite be useful! be grateful be pleasant be agreeable be helpful …or people won’t LIKE YOU and you were said: be cool be pretty be funny be successful be respectable be rich be …

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Lifestyle

Believe in Someone

If you believe in someone then it’s never wrong to give another chance. If you don’t believe in someone then it’s never wrong NOT to give a single chance.   There are infinitely many people in this planet. Those you believe in are more valuable then the rest of the planet. Those you don’t believe …

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Philosophy

Honesty / Meanness

Honesty can appear as meanness but meanness can never pass up as honesty – as some would like to believe.   Is it integrity, valiant shielding of the truth — or is he just a mean person? Insecure person? Ambitious person? Angry person?   If truth can’t defend itself then who are you to defend …

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Lifestyle

The Wrongs Are Wrongs

The wrongs are wrongs.   It won’t cease being wrong just because you ignore it.   It will anger you for as long as you not solve it.   Your wrongs you correct with action and/or understanding.   Wrongs of others you correct by: 1) Correcting them 2) Getting rid of them 3) Making the …

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