I begin to doubt the existence of such thing as VALID CRITICISM OF A PERSON You can only criticise ideas and attitudes I’m the last to avoid offending But when I see a fool I just see foolishness When I see a fraud I just see confusion When I see an evil-doer I just …
Tag: Relations
Know How Much Negative Energy You Can Take with Impunity
Know how much negative energy you can take with impunity Your ability to absorb negative energy is predicated on your energetic level The higher you are — the more you can take It’s not a function of willpower or strength And it doesn’t mean you ought to take that negativity either. Sometimes you just …
Never Hesitate To Enlighten Those Around You
Never hesitate to enlighten those around you Never go out of your way to find others to preach your morals to and impose your wisdom on. No one cares – and if they do they will find you. But never hesitate to enlighten those already around you They are part of your world and …
You Can’t Really Treat Others With Respect Unless You’re Being Real First
You can’t really treat others with respect unless you’re being real first One who can’t be real is not worthy of respect — and in that not able to give respect One who is not real is already disrespectful — in being phony and disingenuous Be real first Be offensive if …
Miscommunication = Fraud
Anytime you fail to properly communicate you essentially unintentionally become a fraud You mislead Misleading is deceiving Deception is fraud Learn to communicate
You Will Never Transform The World’s Conflict With Conflict
You will never transform the world’s conflict with conflict The world’s injustice — the rich getting richer, disempowered women, discrimination of minorities — real or not — it will never be transformed by fighting it You can’t solve conflicts with conflicts For as long as you view it as a struggle, as …
Arrogance Is The Not-Learning
Arrogance is not what you say or do Not even how you express it Arrogance is your attitude to life Your unwillingness to learn When you see a dog you call it a “dog” When you see a tree you call it a “tree” There’s no beating around the bush. A tree is a …
Supporting Others Is Investing
Supporting others is basically investing Investment is leverage for judgment You want to leverage your prudent judgment of others by supporting them If you don’t support promising people — you are leaving money on the table Support is obviously not about altruism — which doesn’t exist Support is predicated on self-interest …
ACCORD
Every interpersonal conflict is but the discrepancy between what is expected and what is communicated. Many are not even themselves aware of their expectations — thus bound for conflict. With others, with themselves… Accord stands on the pillars of clear communication and clarity of vision. Clarity of vision is ultimately a matter …
Discriminate Not Hate
whether I hate you or love you whatever I label you or don’t label whether I offend you or please you doesn’t change the only thing of substance, and that’s: WHETHER you are USEFUL to me OR NOT just because I don’t want to associate with you doesn’t mean I hate you just because …