Being an amazing person is underrated. Amazing people charge others with their amazing energy. Amazing people build an amazing world of happiness. I really don’t care about your achievements and successes. Does it make the world a happier place? I am proud of every amazing person and their capacity to enjoy this beautiful life, and …
Tag: Relations
I Take Small Talk Over a Lecture Every Day
Contrary to popular belief – small talk is not devoid of substance. There are vast worlds of meanings, emotions, personalities, relations, concealed between the words – if only you can listen. With many people – the only way to avoid hearing another conceited lecture or bombastic monologue — is to small-talk them. Small talk …
Alienating “Good” Impression
I wonder if some people never realise how their desperation to make a good impression only makes them twice as alienating. Forthrightness goes such a long way — often in ways we can’t explain but know to be true. If you know someone who tries a little bit too hard — be forthright …
REAL Social Justice
Our society is not perfect. It’s a fact. There are many societal problems which I won’t even state. I imagine you have your own problems with society. Now, how do you go about those problems? We, humans, have an unfortunate tendency to identify. We identify with things. What we identify with – we …
Don’t Be More Attractive – Be More Loving
You think the way you interact with people is “normal”. You think changing your default behaviour is “not being real”, or “unnatural”, perhaps. The way you interact with people is not normal. The way you create relationships is not normal. It is not normal and it is not natural. You are a victim of …
Directness Is a SUPERPOWER
Directness really IS a superpower. For it really only comes with self-acceptance, self-understanding, self love, self reliability… After a lifetime of self-denial, repression, compliance, obedience, self-sacrifice, trusting others with your happiness and self-worth — directness truly IS a superpower. …for when you finally say what you think — you are that much closer to DOING …
NEVER justify yourself to ANYONE
NEVER justify yourself to anyone. Never ever. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t owe anyone anything. When you are genuine — there is nothing more that you have to do. When you are genuine, when you are simple, when you speak your mind, when you don’t look to manipulate people — there …
To Approach The World Empty
You are nothing which becomes something, when in relationship with the world. If you embrace (accept) that you are nothing — you are free to be anything, yet unattached! If you think you are something – the world will be a constant disappointment and grief – for it will never validate your image of yourself. …
To Respect is to Not Respect
If you need a reason to respect yourself — you don’t respect yourself. If there is a condition under which you respect yourself — you don’t respect yourself. If you create a condition under which you respect yourself, you are creating a condition under which you don’t respect yourself. If you create a condition under …
Interpersonal Relations Heuristics
Interpersonal Relations Heuristics: 1) Be positive 2) Be genuine 3) Give value then 4) Treat everyone the same but keep ONLY the FEW of your CHOOSING Be positive — unless you are positive you are negative. When you are negative you make others negative. It doesn’t matter who you are and what you …