You’re not as pretty as you think and not as ugly as you think You deny both your value and your ugliness in how you imagine yourself We are so ugly because we deny our ugliness We deny our innate egoism and build a world of lies, rather then mutual interest We deny …
Tag: Self
You And Strangers
you don’t have your credentials and numbers in your bank account next to your face in real life you don’t have your likes and followers next to your face in real life when you’re face to face you are naked the beauty of strangers is they make you a stranger you think they can’t …
Happiness Is Underrated
Happiness is underrated Happiness is the true mark of success We signal success with silly trinkets and titles and stories — rather then with a smile. Happiness is still underrated when we babble so much about success and money and growth — rather then simply smile. Happiness is still underrated …
NEVER Be Afraid To Be Disliked
You DO want to be liked. You said you didn’t but you do. You were said: be kind be friendly be polite be useful! be grateful be pleasant be agreeable be helpful …or people won’t LIKE YOU and you were said: be cool be pretty be funny be successful be respectable be rich be …
Doubt and Insecurity
Insecurity is subset of the doubt. Doubt is great. Insecurity is delusional. Doubt is questioning. Doubt is reflection. Doubt is exploration. Doubt is great. You want to doubt everything. This is intelligence – this constant vigilance. But to doubt oneself is to create the self – which is delusion. You create the self …
Conflict of Self-Images
It’s difficult facing yourself when you’re so busy facing world’s expectations of you. Delusion won’t end for some until they end caring about all those things they were conditioned to care about. Why would anyone delude oneself, if not to reconcile the conflicted images of oneself? This is why letting go …
Identity Is The Ultimate Limitation
Your identity comprises of beliefs. In fact, identity itself is a belief. Belief that you are (something permanent). That some part of you stays unchanged with time. You change – but it’s still the same you. Only, there is no you. Not now not tomorrow. “You” is so ephemeral that it can’t even exist now …
I Am Not Anonymous
I’m not anonymous. My “real identity” is less real then any of my many parts. It’s time at last we can abandon what we are not and be ourselves. We can express parts of ourselves otherwise deafened. We can channel them in a way which is precise and deliberate and true to our …
Get Yourself a Diary
Get yourself a diary Plenty of benefits just from the shortest notes I swear this should be one of the best investments of your entire life. If not the best Write down your thought Write down your emotion Write down your thought-emotion Then see it Read it Hear it as a third …
Giving Up Is Better Then Persevering
Giving up is better then not giving up. To give up is to either achieve nothing – or achieve something which is actually authentic. To not give up, to persevere – is to achieve everything which is inauthentic. If it’s authentic then it doesn’t involve discipline. If you must discipline yourself …