One needs to first recognise the game played.
Most still play the ‘please-mom-please-dad’ game and ‘play-with-toys’ game. ‘Look-good’ game. ‘Stick-in’ game.
Success is not as much about ‘secrets of the game’ as it is about the ‘basics of the game’. You just have to know what kind of game you’re playing.
Do you understand the game being played? Do you even know what you’re doing? Do you know why you’re doing what you’re doing?
The problem is obviously MORE then existential (if there is ‘more then existential’) — it’s the problem of basically MAKING SENSE.
Choose the game.
Learn the rules.
Learn the objectives. Learn the strategies.
Make moves.