Nothing major in your life was ever pre-planned successfully and you do know it,
We really only keep planning things and talking and organising out of this desperate need to feel in control.
The only tangible is the choice you’re making between the alternatives the fate presented to you
Optimise for options; Optimise for discernment; Optimise for freedom
Don’t optimise for the road map because your 2-dimensional 2-d fucking map is useless in the multidimensional world.
….if only one wouldn’t fear
one could gaze into the heart of this chaos
embrace it
fucking ride it!
limits would drop off like helping wheels
the same comfort we construct for ourselves in our beliefs about the world is what limits us
throw away your map and dive into the wild