It’s only natural to be REPELLED by behaviors which don’t lead you to where you want to be (providing you know and value the place you want to be).

Such REPULSION has nothing to do with “being negative” or “mean”. It’s a natural protection mechanism for values.

Conversely: If your values are crooked — you will subsequently be attracted to similarly crooked behaviors — and repelled by what would be good for you and others.

Your emotions will always protect your “values” — even at the cost of your own well-being.

Values always come first.

When your values are in place — your emotions are your guides.

When your values are out of place — your emotions lead you astray.

Know what you want and what your values are

If you truly do know — your actions and feelings will align