The most important bet you’ll ever make is on yourself
You don’t control the stock market
But you do control you
Every day you bet on someone and something
You bet on your boss to provide you with work
You bet on the products you buy to provide you with adequate utility
You bet on brands to deliver quality
You bet on banks to hold your money
You bet on your country to defend your rights, keep your money valuable, maintain a system which benefits you
And you bet on business ventures to create profit
You bet on people to create great things
Or be great friends
But then there’s you
You decide to DO, something
You will now invest your time and energy into that activity
And the central part of that activity is you yourself
You will carry out the deed
You vest your time and energy on yourself, with expectations of it being utilised in the best way
You obviously don’t want your precious resources to be squandered
Therefore you better pick the right horse
Is that horse right?
Are you the right horse?
Have you proven to you that you’re the right horse?
Have you won any races?
Have you carried out your commitments?
Have you taken care of you, your fitness?
Have you prepared duly for the race?
Have you got experience?
ARE YOU THE HORSE YOU’D BET ON?
And often you’re not
You’re not really the horse you’d bet on
And you know it
You know you’d rather bet on some other horse
You know what a PROMISING HORSE looks like
You know what a fit horse looks like
You know what makes the horse a likely fucking champion
Mind you I never said you must pick the best horse in the world
There are many, many races, going on right now, all over the world
Who cares about the other races — your bet is on THAT HORSE in THAT RACE
You have no money in the “best horse in the world” race
Your money is in the horse and in the race which is about to happen RIGHT NOW
One decision away
The decision to participate
And BET on that horse
or NOT participate and NOT bet on that horse
It’s all about the bet which you’re about to make
It’s all about the BETS you make
Are you picking the right races for your horse?
Or are you just picking any races and rambling about “ambition”?
Do you prepare duly for the races — or are you just dabbling?
Do you even race? Do you even bet? Maybe you ceased racing long time ago? Maybe your race is just a horse-walk in the park? And maybe you have no money in it? Nothing to gain there?
You want to pick the right race
If you don’t believe in your horse then you better start small!
You don’t become a better horse by losing! Don’t let anyone tell you that
You want to win a few races to know where you stand
Then you can lose a few races again, so that you learn
Mind you you’ll lose some money too
If you plan on losing races then you better not overextend yourself with your bets!
Bet a lot when you know your horse can win
Don’t squander on your resources on races you can’t win
We place those ridiculous expectations on ourselves
We commit to ventures we have no business dealing with
We make grand promises which we don’t held ourselves accountable for
We dream, fully knowing it is just a dream — no answering for the countless wasted hours, countless wasted days, countless wasted years
and yet there’s nothing mysterious about it
you wouldn’t bet on a horse which has no chances of winning
you would sure bet a ton of money on the horse which is certain to win!
If you knew your horse was going to win the race before-hand — you’d love to have your horse participate in every race you can find for him!
There’s nothing mysterious about it
You would bet on what you know to have high chances of winning
But our rationality ends when WE become the subject of scrutiny
Where ego begins — rationality ends
Where ego begins — our self-perceptions, wishes, hopes, dreams — entirely obscure the vision
Are you the horse to bet on?
Or do you wish to be?
Well it’s time to find out
By once and for all committing to KEEPING YOUR WORD
By holding yourself accountable for your bets and predictions EVER SINCE
By eradicating the SELF-DELUSION, once and for all
and then it doesn’t really matter what kind of horse you are
what matters is that you KNOW that horse
You know what that horse is capable of
And when it comes to racing — you’ll know whether to BET on that horse — or not
And when you bet — you are going to BET BIG
And you are going to win big
This is the true meaning of confidence, mind you
It’s obviously not that you can do “anything”
No one can, obviously
Confidence is not you being able to do whatever; It’s you KNOWING what you CAN, in fact, DO.
Confidence is your confidence in your horses performance
Confidence is not that your horse can fly or something
Confidence is your confidence in your horses performance
Certainty is your certainty about your horses potential
And then when you bet — you are going to BET BIG
And you are going to win BIG