What does your life comprises of? Things, yes? No not really. Just our “concept” of life. “The narrative”. But for must of us, the experience is hardly ever separated from the narrative. And from the self, in the centre of it all… What does your life comprises of? Where do the things come …
Category: Lifestyle
Things WILL Fall Into Their Place
Obviously things will fall into their place if you let them. How could they not? It’s just that you want them in a different place. Do design your life, if you please. As long as this desire doesn’t make you suffer. Otherwise, let the chips fall where they may. They will.
The Change, The Reality And The Death
What you call “reality” is modeled on the feedback that you’re receiving. The feedback that you’re receiving is based on actions which you’re taking. It is based on your activities. (If you eat rice and broccoli every day – you are going to think that all food tastes like rice and broccoli. And you will …
You May Not Change For The Better But You CAN Always Change
“Changing for better”, the ultimate delusion. what is better? how do you know it’s better? perhaps it will be your undoing. Perhaps you will be murdered for that money. Perhaps the responsibility of that position will kill you. Perhaps you won’t be able to live without that person. Perhaps you won’t know what to …
Reciprocity Is Fear
Reciprocity is based on scarcity. And dependence. And clinging. Scarcity is ultimately always based on clinging. When you don’t cling — there is nothing to feel lacking about. Reciprocity is based on your lacking mentality. You are afraid that the giver will take away his gifts. You simply cling to the offerings. …
The REAL Meaning of “Going With The Flow”
What would it mean, to “go with the flow”? If someone heard this phrase for the first time, heard this advice for the first time — what would he surmise? Please look into the meaning of “going with the flow” for yourself. I imagine going with the flow would be avoiding obstacles. One is …
If you rely on the approval of others – do you still rely on yourself?
If you rely on the approval of others – do you still rely on yourself? Is this your opinion or their’s opinion, then? You espouse certain beliefs, which you read somewhere or found out by yourself. Now, if you need someone to validate them – are you not invalidating your own perspective? Why …
When You’re Bored – Do NOTHING
You are bored because you seek to be entertained. To seek is to be seeking. You seek it through hedonism and stimulation. It numbs you. Whatever you abuse – turns right against you. It’s simply unnatural. It’s not how homo sapiens fucking works. When you are bored — do NOTHING. If there’s a …
The Cure Is The Forgetfulness
To cure your problems – forget them. Forget your inadequacy. Forget your failures. Forget your bad experiences. Forget the pain. It’s all gone when you forget them. The venerated “PRESENCE”, the mindfulness — is exactly that – forgetfulness. The venerated “no-self” – it is exactly that – forgetfulness. Forget the past and you are …
The Problem With Modernity Is That We Are Simply Not Modern
Mankind is not so modern. We are old. Governed by our instincts. Our best response to our bestiality is to hamper it with laws and regulations. Which itself is bestiality (answering force with the threat of a force). This barely even works and we will probably kill each other soon. Whatever. Instead I …