9/10 people should hear that what-is is neither what should be nor what shouldn’t be — it’s just what it is and for some very good reason (whether they see it or not) if you can change what is — go ahead; but I don’t want to hear what “should be” because there’s really …
Tag: Change
Why Do You Care…
Why do you care about being rich if all you want to do is watch netflix and play video games? You don’t have to be a millionaire to do either You say you want to be rich but you want to play video games Obviously money will elude you Because you don’t really want …
You Are Thine Only Metric
You can’t know how well you’re doing, comparing yourself to the world Are you supposed to be working hard? Are you supposed to have a crazy life? Are you supposed to “make great things”? Are you supposed to be honourable and self-sacrificial? Are you supposed to shine like tits on your instagram feed? Are …
Making Yourself Not Do Things Is Harder Then Making Yourself Do Things
Making yourself NOT do things is harder then making yourself do things It’s also more beneficial It’s easy to DO something. Anyone can do something once, or for 5 minutes It’s harder to UNDO. It’s harder to NOT do. It’s harder to break the chains of routines which reined you your entire life …
You Only Don’t Need Help If You Can Do It Alone
you only don’t need help if you can do it alone you don’t need a teacher if you can learn by yourself you don’t need education if you can educate yourself you don’t need discipline if you can discipline yourself you don’t need a guide if you can lead yourself …
The Utter Inevitability Of Your Life
there is no other life than your current life there are no other options but your current options future obviously doesn’t exist past is obviously just a bedtime story you are utterly alone — no one to help you, and no one to compare to either everything that happens to you …
Something Is Better Then Nothing
“Something is better than nothing” is one maxim to actually change lives Your pompous new year’s resolutions are great way to boast drunkenly in the middle of the first night of this glorious forthcoming new year If you actually want changes — start small — and just make sure to stick with it. …
Healing The Symptoms
Its not just that healing the symptoms is not healing the causes — but that healing symptoms precludes healing causes, by making the problem invisible Healing the symptoms doesn’t just fail to address the problem — it actually makes it worse Therefore you should altogether avoid addressing symptoms or numbing yourself or distracting Because then …
The Point Of The Unexpected Is Unexpected
The point of the unexpected is that it IS unexpected. Which means that it can be as much an unexpected success as it can be a disappointment. If it couldn’t have been either then it wouldn’t have been unexpected. If you expect it to always be good then what kind of *unexpected* …
Beyond Entitlement
We collectively have an idea of What-One-Deserves, formed a posteriori. It’s an *OBSERVATION* It is thus not supposed to have predictive power. EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU DESERVE, OR DON’T DESERVE, IS A LIE. Do you deserve the sun? Do you deserve a lambo? Do you deserve a horse? Do you deserve to …