You repress what you’re ashamed of about yourself — which in turn prevents you from addressing it’s very cause. It’s a vicious circle. You must OWN what you’re ashamed of. Laugh at it, really! The more you’re ashamed of something the more it will paralyse you, and control you. The more important is the matter …
Tag: Psychology
Delusion Will Always Thrive When There Is Not Simplicity
Is psyche simple? It could be. It probably is not, for most of us. Our mind is like a cluttered room. There’s a lot of stuff in it. Some useful. Some useless. Some old and some new. Some at the front desk and some thrown somewhere under the rug. Most of that stuff is garbage. …
Appereances Are Not Really Shallow
Appearances are not really shallow It’s your perception which is shallow Your perception is shallow and incomplete You don’t truly see the person, or the thing To make things worse — you see your own projections, your own mirages Your preconception about the person, about the thing, is the very definition of …
Avoid Negativity Like The Plague
Negativity is not objective. Negativity is only subjective. There is no such thing in real life as a negative thing. Everything is exactly what it is and it’s neither negative nor positive. Negative and positive only exist within the psyche — and as such are entirely subjective. Since negativity is subjective — it …
About Your Age and The Passing of Time
Concept of age conceals great tyranny Is age just a number? It would be. But instead it represents the years of failing to achieve, years of falling behind, years of not making it in time, years of running out of time… and eventually, it represents the time to die, represents that there’s no more time. …
Conflict Is Stupid
Conflict is stupid It’s not true that strong, righteous men must get into conflicts. Men get into conflicts to prove themselves strong. Peaceful person doesn’t make enemies. What sense would that make? Enemies don’t make you more peaceful. Obviously you want to be the peaceful person. Then why would you get into …
Meet People to Know People
Meet people to know people. Don’t overthink don’t over-analyse, Meet more people to more understand people. Meeting people is an experience like every other. One becomes experienced by meeting people. Experience engenders better judgement, better understanding. Interpersonal understanding is not expanded with thought, analysis, systems, ideas… Interpersonal understanding is expanded with experience. …
No One Really Gets Away With Anything
No one really gets away with anything. The wrongdoer is not coming from a happy place. The wrongdoer is already coming from a place of dissatisfaction, fear and strife. It’s a dark place to be — and it’s only getting darker. Should you really ever be upset with anybody? Can’t you …
Giving Advice
Be careful with GIVING ADVICE. Yes, be wrong all the time. Yes, say whatever the fuck you want. Yes, explore. But be careful with WHO and WHAT you advice. Advice more competent person then yourself — you will likely come around as tryhard and insecure. Mind you if you’re wrong — it can just …
The Poor, The Meaningless, The Free
Does it really matter who is rich and who is poor isn’t what really matters to know HOW TO LIVE? Everyone is rich in the XXI century western world. The only importance of the get-rich-game is freedom There is nothing truly valuable to gain with money But the price one pays for …