No one really gets away with anything. The wrongdoer is not coming from a happy place. The wrongdoer is already coming from a place of dissatisfaction, fear and strife. It’s a dark place to be — and it’s only getting darker. Should you really ever be upset with anybody? Can’t you …
Tag: Psychology
Giving Advice
Be careful with GIVING ADVICE. Yes, be wrong all the time. Yes, say whatever the fuck you want. Yes, explore. But be careful with WHO and WHAT you advice. Advice more competent person then yourself — you will likely come around as tryhard and insecure. Mind you if you’re wrong — it can just …
The Poor, The Meaningless, The Free
Does it really matter who is rich and who is poor isn’t what really matters to know HOW TO LIVE? Everyone is rich in the XXI century western world. The only importance of the get-rich-game is freedom There is nothing truly valuable to gain with money But the price one pays for …
The Game Played
One needs to first recognise the game played. Most still play the ‘please-mom-please-dad’ game and ‘play-with-toys’ game. ‘Look-good’ game. ‘Stick-in’ game. Success is not as much about ‘secrets of the game’ as it is about the ‘basics of the game’. You just have to know what kind of game you’re playing. …
XXI Century Fear
All fear is ultimately useless for all the fear in the world can still not protect you from the imminent death. Fear can be disregarded altogether for as long as you DON’T DIE. The point of fear was never to stifle you. In fact — the point of fear was to keep you …
Simple Not Simplistic
Simplicity is not generalising Generalising is simplistic, reductionistic Simplicity doesn’t reduce. Doesn’t judge. Doesn’t diminish. Doesn’t label. When you hear — “BE SIMPLE” — it means: be open, be non-judgemental be perceptive see what is don’t see what isn’t, don’t presume what isn’t When you hear — “BE SIMPLE” — it …
Struggle Sells
Struggle sells Appeal to hardship and struggle and it should be relatable and plausible (to the masses anyway) Struggle sells and you buy a conveniently convincing image of this conflicted, tough world — with struggle passing up as purpose and grand philosophy — really only concealing the escapism and consternation about the utter …
“Perfect Mind”
Perfect mind is an EVER-CHANGING, ANTIFRAGILE WHOLE — detached from it’s infinite expandable, fragile parts. Weak, fragile mind is one relying on the survival of it’s content. The more you believe something the more you attach yourself, you attach your mind — then DEPENDENT on it. The entire identity crushes with it’s foundation …
We Label Each Other
The only way to threat someone badly is by deliberately hurting them. You can’t be held accountable for not helping someone. Most can’t be helped. “Good treatment”, “rules of conduct”, “good behaviour” — all these are constructs. It’s subjective “good”, agreed “good”, and not objective. We have a habit of labelling things. This habit makes …
NEVER Be Afraid To Be Disliked
You DO want to be liked. You said you didn’t but you do. You were said: be kind be friendly be polite be useful! be grateful be pleasant be agreeable be helpful …or people won’t LIKE YOU and you were said: be cool be pretty be funny be successful be respectable be rich be …