The only way to threat someone badly is by deliberately hurting them. You can’t be held accountable for not helping someone. Most can’t be helped. “Good treatment”, “rules of conduct”, “good behaviour” — all these are constructs. It’s subjective “good”, agreed “good”, and not objective. We have a habit of labelling things. This habit makes …
Tag: Relations
NEVER Be Afraid To Be Disliked
You DO want to be liked. You said you didn’t but you do. You were said: be kind be friendly be polite be useful! be grateful be pleasant be agreeable be helpful …or people won’t LIKE YOU and you were said: be cool be pretty be funny be successful be respectable be rich be …
Believe in Someone
If you believe in someone then it’s never wrong to give another chance. If you don’t believe in someone then it’s never wrong NOT to give a single chance. There are infinitely many people in this planet. Those you believe in are more valuable then the rest of the planet. Those you don’t believe …
Honesty / Meanness
Honesty can appear as meanness but meanness can never pass up as honesty – as some would like to believe. Is it integrity, valiant shielding of the truth — or is he just a mean person? Insecure person? Ambitious person? Angry person? If truth can’t defend itself then who are you to defend …
The Wrongs Are Wrongs
The wrongs are wrongs. It won’t cease being wrong just because you ignore it. It will anger you for as long as you not solve it. Your wrongs you correct with action and/or understanding. Wrongs of others you correct by: 1) Correcting them 2) Getting rid of them 3) Making the …
Blame Is Only Ignorance
You can’t really blame the other person. The other person is precisely what it is. You can only ever blame your judgement. Or your management of the situation. Blame is really just a word used for a particular set of thoughts and feelings (thought-feelings). I can use the word “blame” to …
There Is Not a “Nice Way To Put It”
There is not “a nice way to put it” A spade is a fucking spade The only question is: to speak or not to speak
A Man Who Respects Himself
A man who respects himself ought not put up with anything he doesn’t approve of. Unless he doesn’t have a choice. In which case he should accept it completely – and make NOT ONE complaint about it. This sounds simple and banal perhaps – but it is actually most difficult. The difference between …
Being An Amazing Person
Being an amazing person is underrated. Amazing people charge others with their amazing energy. Amazing people build an amazing world of happiness. I really don’t care about your achievements and successes. Does it make the world a happier place? I am proud of every amazing person and their capacity to enjoy this beautiful life, and …
I Take Small Talk Over a Lecture Every Day
Contrary to popular belief – small talk is not devoid of substance. There are vast worlds of meanings, emotions, personalities, relations, concealed between the words – if only you can listen. With many people – the only way to avoid hearing another conceited lecture or bombastic monologue — is to small-talk them. Small talk …